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How I Saved Marriage By Creating Intimacy

This is a very true article by somebody who’s marriage was in dire straits but managed to save marriage by just applying common sense. If you use these simple tactics, you stand a good chance to save marriage.Heres how:

When your marriage boat is drifting on troubled water, you really need to make quick decisions  and firmly believe that you can save marriage if you really want to save the marriage.  If you don’t believe that as fact, then there is nothing you do that will make a blind bit of difference.  So right now, believe that it is possible for you to save the marriage.

1. Spend time on your marriage relationship with your spouse..  In this day and age when a thousand and one things can encroach on your time, not making time for your marriage is a surefire way for a marriage to hit trouble.  It happens to most of us to some degree; you are too busy trying to make a living and then forget or neglect your spouse. Before long, you realize it is too late to turn back the clock and do something about it. But maybe it isn’t too late!
 

2. Create intimicy. Another  missing ingredient for marriages in trouble is a lack of intimacy.  For a marriage to be happy there must be a level of intimacy that goes beyond the physical and wholeheartedly embraces the emotional.  Ask yourself this, “does my marriage suffer from a lack of intimacy?”

3. Be open with your feelings and thoughts.  Do you share and include or do you exclude and keep your emotions and emotional needs locked away and try and deal with things on your own?  If you exclude your spouse emotionally, then your marriage lacks intimacy and it’s time to inject some and get on the road to save marriage.

4. Share your problems with your partner. Make sure that you’re making every attempt to share your problems and worries with your spouse.  Too often people find themselves worried and preoccupied with a situation.  Instead of sharing this situation with their spouse, they decide to try and deal with it on their own.  This is a big mistake because it excludes your spouse when you should be including them.
  
5. Make your partner feel important. This is not too difficult. Use some initiative.  Surprise him/her with a fun afternoon or evening when they really didn’t expect it.  When your spouse realizes that you value them to the extent of changing your schedule to include them, you will begin to see an improved difference in your marriage.

Creating and fostering intimacy in your marriage so that you can save marriage will take time and is an ongoing process.    A healthy and intimate marriage is one that is attended to regularly, only then will it thrive.

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can counseling really save your marriage or waste of time and money?

My husband and I have been married for a year but been together for almost 7yrs. Throughout it all he has cheated on me numerous times and i stay because of the obvious “LOVE”. And of course its happening again but the huge difference is we are married and I took my vows to heart. Im clueless and heartbroken any advice.

Answer
Sometimes marriage counseling can help, but if your husband has cheated many times I don’t see how it would. I would put that money into filing for divorce.