Get My Boyfriend Back

Men often wonder if they are speaking the same language as women because they can land in hot water very quickly.  They look for relationship advice for men in order to avoid these situations but most relationship advice is written by women for other women.

There are some basic rules and first date tips that men need to understand in order to increase their success rate with the opposite sex.

The first one is you need to worry when your woman gives you the silent treatment.  Most men go silent because they have nothing left to say but when a woman goes silent, it’s because she has a whole lot to say and it is generally a big hint that you have upset her. Whilst you may think that silence is golden, women use not talking as a punishment. So if your lady friend has a silent day, think back over your actions and try to determine what you have done to upset her.

Secondly, PMT is not always the reason for a woman being in a bad mood. Sometimes they are upset and hurt over something and it has nothing to do with when their period is due. If you constantly blame PMT, you will probably find yourself searching the lonely hearts columns in the near future.

Women like to talk about their problems but this doesn’t mean that they want you to fix everything.  Most females are quite capable of looking after themselves and they just want to let off steam. God gave you two ears and one mouth for a reason.  Just in case, it was so you could listen to what your partner is saying before you jump in with the solution.  Do yourself a favour and believe that silence in this instance goes a long way.

When looking for relationship advice for men, men often look in the wrong places.  It is not ideal to ask your partner’s father what her problem is.  Firstly he is unlikely to understand her any more than you do but being the apple of his eye, he will wonder what you have done to upset her and may even guide you in the wrong direction on purpose. A father’s protective instincts for his little girl are a very serious thing; ignore them at your peril.

It helps to remember that your female partner and an elephant have something in common – their memory. Your partner will never forget anything so don’t be surprised if she has a list a mile long of all the things you did wrong in the last six months.

Try talking to your partner. Tell her often how much you love and appreciate her and cuddle her without always expecting it to lead to sex.  Like people of both sexes, women like to be held and appreciated without feeling they have to give you something in return.

Also if you are worried about something speak to your partner.  Whilst she may be female, she is not helpless and two heads are often better than one at solving a problem.  In addition, if she knows what is bothering you she is less likely to become emotionally distant having decided that you must be having an affair or are planning to leave her.

Relationships take work on both sides but be careful what sources you use as relationship advice for men or first date tips. The secret to successful relationships is understanding how it all works. Like anything in life, it has to be mastered. Unfortunately, if you rely on instinct for this you may end up a very lonely man.

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Relationship advice for an INTJ female going into college?

I’ve been tested for the Myers-Brigg personality type, and have consistently been said to be an INTJ. Any advice as to how I should get guys’ attention in college, or what guys I should go for??? I’ve never been in any relationship.

Answer
INFJ here, best advice I can give is NOT to look for a relationship as one will come to you when the time is right as long as you are making yourself available (going to parties, bars, etc.)