Divorce advice?
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My friend is in a really bad marriage at the moment her husband was known for the hit and be mentally very violent. She came by today to ask me to go to his county and to divorce her because he took a flash light and a rifle and looking every inch of the house all days like ten times a day. He is on drugs or something, but she cannot sleep, even if she stays with me for a while. What would be the best way for her to do in that she is afraid he will try to come here and hurt her and my family. It is a andvery pshyco capiable thereof. So my question is: what should it do and can she file for divorce in a county other than where they live. Is a restraining order really work for her if she lives here. Please any advice would génial.par how he has no idea she even think about divorce and that frightens him even pirece that scares me is that I fear he will come to my house and demand to know where she is and if I tell him he will hurt me and my family
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Call police.Ils can advise you and help you protect your friend.
She needs to add a reverse osmosis for the divorce papers and you know you have a weapon and will not hesitate to shoot anyone tresspassing on your property.
I would call the authorities and ask them. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . What a Concept. . . . . . . . eh?
Most cities have shelters where women victims of violence can go to get away from their husbands. Contact the police and they can help. For obvious reasons, the addresses are not public.
She is fortunate to have a friend like toi.Contactez police immediately and tell them the whole story.
I suggest you speak to the police to see what you can do to protect it and your family too. You can check what services are available in your area for women victims of violence. They might be able to find a safe place to stay and help her through her divorce, too. It was certainly a great friend to you, but for now it also needs to seek advice from people who have experience with this sort of thing. Good luck and I hope it works for her!
My advice is for both his safety and yours – Monday morning, go to your police department and ask about filing a protection order. . Generally, it can be filed at the courthouse and may be granted immediately. . my courthouse was a lawyer “legal” that helped the paperwork and waited for me before the judge. I was out with a few hours. . . Then it will need to go to the police where she lived, where she works, and all other places listed in the order of protection and have them make a copy thereof to the files. She needs to keep it with her at all temps.Immédiatement it needs to contact a shelter for women drug (listed in the directory) and go. . they have security and a safe place for her. . Trust me, these women know how to provide security and assist with advice and help to get back on its pieds.Mais, she needs to leave your home. I know it’s hard, but many husbands both fly and attack people who are housing the woman because in her mind, if you were not there, she would be home and it your fault. You do not want to read about your family on the news. . you saw yourself too often. . Be her friend. . but do not risk your family for her. . And, housing for women is experienced in how to help with this. . Good luck and you, your family and your friends are in my prayers.
It depends on what state you live in. in NC you can put into a county, but a divorce, separation requires a year. I agree with some of the other answers – it must go to the police and prosecution if possible. If not, then it must obtain a restraining order. It owes its coverage, regardless of where they live. Once in force, it would not be allowed to come within so many feet from him or his family. This will depend on how it is written. A police officer can answer all this for you. All states are different again, it really depends on how the laws are written in your region. Good luck!
It needs not only a restraining order but it must go to a safe place for a while. She needs to know he is getting help in managing anger and the Court to allow that to happen. She needs to get protection by a fire arm and a liceanse to wear and of course self defense. It is time for women to quit taking men’s violence (sissies) and find the man who will treat her right and take care of her in all directions.
I would really like to know where the shelter is for women to take him there, that your life with your family is in danger too, as it is here. It will also anger against you for letting her be there. The shelter is formed to take care of this kind of thing get her fast. They will help advise her everything she needs to know they are trained to do this, you do not.
Dawn, go to the authorities and report as such a prohibition order is better than nothing, ASAP, A friend Jimmy.