Get My Boyfriend Back

Divorcing your wife is a tough choice to make, but what is done is done, and now is the time to focus on getting out with your pants on. Men need all the divorce advice they can get, because the bias is definitely against men in divorce proceedings. You need to realize that and start making plans ASAP! Making sure that your finances are in order is the first step. Here are 3 tips to being well

1)     Gather financial documents – You need to have everything ready and in order, preferably organized and prepared by an accountant. This is to be sur that you can answer any questions that you may be asked in court. You want to find income statements for the last 5 years. Loan papers, stock receipts and savings account statements.

2)     Separate your joint accounts – Go do this NOW. There are many stories of women using joing accounts against their husbands as a form of revenge. You may think that your ex would never do such a thing, but do not underestimate the higly emotional state that a divorce creates and the ‘advice’ she will receive from her friends and family.

3)     Learn and Prepare, Then Consult – Learn everything you can, prepare all nessecary documents yourself, only THEN go see a lawyer. Lawyers get paid by the hour and will have no problems spending lots of time on telling you things you could have found out for yourself. Divorce lawyers are expensive. Make sure you understand your choices, the proceedings and tactics before you meet a lawyer.

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step by step divorce advice please?

My girlfriends husband is addicted to coccaine as I mentioned in passed questions. He was getting help but felll back into the drugs again. She wants to file for divorce but needs some info on how to handle this step by step. 1st she has 2 illnesses 1 is M.S. and the other it another blood disorder. Her insurance is through her husband. Next they have 1 child 1 1/2 years old also on his insurance. Next they own a house and the market is slow in her area now. They also have credit cards that totall about $20k. She only makes about $35k/year so no chance in keeping the home. So what can she do? He refuses to leave the house and she has no where to go and please don’t say shelter or anything like that. Her husband isn’t adusive or really causing much of a problem besides the fact that she hates him for doing drugs and not being there for her or the kid. The lawyer gave her legal advice like cost and time it would take but that doesn’t guide her in the right direction. Advice please…
She could get an apt. on her salary but the problem is owing a $2500 mortgage every month. Both of their names are on the house and he’s not reliable enough to pay that. And she can’t afford that on her salary alone. That’s the problem. My advice was put her house for sale, find an apt. ask that her name be taken off the mortgage, hopefully the house sells soon enough, and then make the divorce final.

Answer
First thing she should do is talk to a Lawyer, some do the first visit for free…This way she can ask him/her what she should and can do…
She can also search online for laws in her state…I typed in California divorce laws and found a lot of information for myself…